Hi, there. Jen Glantz here. I am so sorry for your recent loss. I’m here to help you write a eulogy during this difficult time. Welcome to a guide on eulogy templates for a brother.
Writing a eulogy for your brother is a meaningful way to honor his legacy and share the impact that he had on your family. This guide will help you craft a tribute that celebrates his life, wisdom, and the special role he played in shaping your family’s story.
Resources:
- Our #1 Brother Eulogy Generator
- How to Write a Eulogy for Your Brother
- Brother eulogy examples
- A guide on how to deliver a eulogy for your brother
- Printable brother eulogy template
General Fill-in-the-Blank Brother Eulogy Template
“Good [morning/afternoon/evening]. Thank you all for being here to remember my brother, [Full Name], whom many knew as [nickname].
As [his older/younger] [brother/sister], I’ve had the privilege of knowing [Name] my entire life. He was [choose 2-3: protective/funny/caring/strong/creative] and brought [choose 2-3: laughter/joy/adventure/wisdom/strength] to our family.
Growing up together, we shared [choose 2-3: adventures/interests/hobbies/experiences]. Some of my favorite memories include [choose 1-2 specific childhood memories]. These perfectly capture his [positive qualities] and show who he was as a person.
To his [wife/children/friends], he was [relationship qualities]. At work as a [profession], he was known for [professional characteristics]. To our family, he was [family role].
[Name] faced life’s challenges with [positive quality] and showed incredible [strength/courage/determination] when dealing with [specific challenge/illness].
What I’ll miss most about my brother is [specific quality/habit/tradition]. He had a way of [characteristic action] that made everyone feel [emotional impact].
His legacy lives on through [choose 2-3: his children/his work/his impact on others/specific legacy]. We take comfort knowing [appropriate closing about peace/impact/memory].
[Name], thank you for being my brother and for [choose 2-3: specific impacts on your life]. Until we meet again.”
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Understanding How to Honor Your Brother
A brother’s eulogy should:
- Celebrate your unique sibling bond
- Share childhood memories
- Acknowledge his roles in life
- Honor his impact on family
- Preserve special memories
- Provide comfort to family and friends
How to Write a Meaningful Brother Eulogy
Step 1: Gathering Memories
Reflect on:
- Childhood memories
- Shared experiences
- Family traditions
- Your relationship evolution
- His impact on others
- Special moments together
- Recent memories
- His roles in life
Step 2: Organizing Your Thoughts
Structure your eulogy:
- Introduction and relationship
- Childhood memories
- Adult relationship
- His impact on others
- Special memories
- Legacy and closing
Five Brother Eulogy Templates
Template 1: The Protective Older Brother
“My brother Michael was more than just my big brother – he was my protector, my guide, and one of my best friends. From the day I was born, he took his role as big brother seriously, looking out for me in ways both big and small.
Growing up, Michael was the one who taught me how to ride a bike, stood up to bullies for me, and somehow managed to take the blame when I broke mom’s favorite vase. He had this extraordinary way of making me feel safe while also encouraging me to be brave.
As we grew older, our relationship evolved from protector and protected to true friends. He became my confidant, my adviser, and still, whenever I needed him, my protector. Even when we disagreed, I never doubted his love or his desire to keep me safe.
Michael carried this protective nature into every relationship. As a husband and father, he created a secure and loving home. As a friend, he was always the one people could count on in a crisis. His strength wasn’t just physical – it was emotional, the kind of strength that made others feel safe just by being near him.
Thank you, Michael, for being the best big brother I could have asked for. Your protective spirit lives on in how we care for each other.”
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Template 2: The Fun-Loving Brother
“Tommy and I shared a bedroom for 18 years, and in that time, he taught me more about laughter and joy than anyone else I’ve ever known. He had this incredible ability to find humor in any situation and make even the most ordinary day feel like an adventure.
Our childhood was filled with elaborate pranks, secret languages, and midnight conspiracies to raid the kitchen. He could turn a rainy day into an indoor expedition, complete with pillow fort construction and imaginary monsters to defeat.
As adults, Tommy kept that playful spirit alive. Family gatherings weren’t complete without his legendary stories and practical jokes. He approached life with a sense of fun that was contagious, reminding us all not to take ourselves too seriously.
Even during his illness, he maintained his sense of humor. He named his IV pole ‘Bob’ and would introduce it to every new nurse. His ability to find laughter in dark moments showed us all what true courage looks like.
Brother, thank you for teaching me that life is better when you’re laughing. Your joy continues to echo in our memories and stories.”
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Template 3: The Brother and Best Friend
“David wasn’t just my brother – he was my best friend, my business partner, and my closest confidant. We shared not just DNA but a deep understanding that made words often unnecessary. One look could send us into fits of laughter or communicate exactly what the other was thinking.
Growing up, we were inseparable. From building tree houses to starting our first business selling lemonade, we were always plotting our next adventure together. As adults, that partnership continued as we built our company together, each of us knowing our strengths and supporting each other’s weaknesses.
What made our relationship special wasn’t just the good times – it was how we handled challenges. Whether facing business setbacks or personal struggles, we knew we could count on each other completely. David had this way of knowing exactly what I needed, whether it was a word of encouragement or just silent company.
Our bond went beyond brotherhood – it was a friendship that made both of us better people. He pushed me to be braver, supported me when I doubted myself, and always knew how to make me laugh when I needed it most.
To my brother and best friend: thank you for sharing this journey with me. Our partnership may have ended too soon, but your influence on my life continues.”
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Template 4: The Complicated Brother
“Life with James wasn’t always easy, but it was always real. Like many siblings, our relationship had its ups and downs, but underneath any difficulties was a deep bond that nothing could break.
Growing up, we were different in almost every way. He was [characteristics], while I was [opposite characteristics]. These differences led to both clashes and complementary strengths. As adults, we learned to appreciate what made each of us unique.
What I admired most about James was his authenticity. He never pretended to be someone he wasn’t, and he taught me that family bonds are strong enough to withstand honesty and disagreement. Through our challenges, we learned that love doesn’t require perfection.
In recent years, we found a new way to be brothers. We learned to appreciate each other’s differences and support each other’s journeys. James showed me that it’s never too late to build a stronger relationship.
Brother, thank you for teaching me that real relationships can weather any storm. Your authenticity continues to inspire me.”
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Template 5: The Inspiring Brother
“John lived his life in a way that inspired everyone around him. As his [brother/sister], I had a front-row seat to witness his determination, courage, and unwavering optimism, even in the face of incredible challenges.
From childhood, he approached every obstacle as an opportunity. When told he couldn’t [specific challenge], he proved everyone wrong by [specific achievement]. His response to hearing ‘impossible’ was always ‘watch me.’
What made him extraordinary wasn’t just his achievements – it was how he lifted others up along the way. He was the first to encourage someone else’s dreams, to offer help when needed, and to celebrate others’ successes as if they were his own.
Even during his illness, he continued inspiring others. He faced each treatment with courage, each setback with determination, and somehow found ways to encourage others even during his own struggles.
Brother, thank you for showing us what courage and determination look like. Your inspiring spirit lives on in all the lives you touched.”
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Tips for Writing and Delivering Your Brother’s Eulogy
Writing Guidelines
- Write from the heart
- Include specific memories
- Balance grief with celebration
- Share both childhood and adult memories
- Keep length to 5-7 minutes
- Include humor if appropriate
Delivery Tips
- Practice reading aloud
- Bring water
- Have backup copy
- Take pauses when needed
- Accept emotional moments
- Focus on honoring his memory
Final Thoughts
Remember that your eulogy doesn’t need to be perfect – it needs to be authentic. Your shared history as siblings gives you a unique perspective on your brother’s life, and your words will help others understand him better.
Consider including:
- Childhood memories
- Your evolving relationship
- Shared experiences
- His impact on your life
- Special traditions or jokes
- Recent memories
Most importantly, speak from your heart about the brother you knew and loved. Your words will help preserve his memory and provide comfort to those who gather to remember him.
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